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I am what I think. We are what we share.


Here are two points of fact…

1. The Law of Attraction says that positive thoughts bring positive results into a person’s life, while negative thoughts bring negative outcomes.

and

2. Humans are unable to look away from a train wreck.

I point this out because there is energy in thought. And there is energy in where we put our focus. This is the concept behind prayer as much as the Law of Attraction.

I want to remind you of this — remind all of us — as we head into that contentious and energetic conflict we call Election Season.

Donald Trump and the MAGA zeitgeist is a train wreck of epic proportion, and it’s hard to look away. It’s hard not to watch the video clips and stare at the headlines in agony; not to gasp, mock, or tremble with horror at the hypocrisy and hate spewing forth; not to share “look what they’re doing now” posts on social media.

Believe it or not, all of that — those reactions — are actually innate human responses. Watching disasters — like staring at a car accident when you drive by, watching news broadcasts about tornadoes, or fixating on Trump’s behavior — triggers our survival instincts.

Our brains are wired to perceive potential danger, analyze and interpret the situation, decide if we should fight or flight.

And studies have shown that we are also prone to what is called “negative bias.”

One study published by the American Psychological Association found that we react to and learn more from our negative experiences than we do positive ones. ‘Humans are prone to negative bias and negative potency,’ explains psychologist Dr. Renee Carr. ‘Negative bias is the tendency to automatically give more attention to a negative event and negative information than positive information or events.”(1)

This explains why we know more about Trump’s criminal activities and abhorrent behaviors than we do about all of the good news in our country and around the world.

Here Are 16 Good News Stories To Give You Hope in 2024
Yes, there’s some good news as 2024 gets underway
24 good things already happening in 2024

I bet you didn’t click on any of those links. That’s part of the negative bias. We’re likely more interested in what other angry things I have to say about Trump than we are that deforestation is decreasing in the Amazon Rainforest, that formerly endangered species like the American bald eagle and the humpback whale are recovering, that there’s a new malaria vaccine about to change the face of public health in Africa.(2)

Negative bias isn’t all bad. “The healthy component of watching disasters is that it is a coping mechanism,” says clinical psychologist Dr. John Mayer. “We can become incubated emotionally by watching disasters and this helps us cope with hardships in our lives. Looking at disasters stimulates our empathy and we are programmed as humans to be empathetic — it is a key psychosocial condition that makes us social human beings.”(3)

But let’s come back to the Law of Attraction. As the book explains:

The Law of Attraction says: That which is like unto itself, is drawn. When you say birds of a feather flock together, you are actually talking about the Law of Attraction. You see it evidenced when you wake up feeling unhappy, and then throughout the day things get worse and worse….You see the Law of Attraction evidenced in your society when you see that one who speaks most about illness has illness; when you see that the one who speaks most about prosperity has prosperity.(4)

We are what we think. We attract that on which we focus.

“As you observe things on the television or in the newspaper, that, because you do not want them, make you feel negative emotion — you hinder your allowance of what you do want.”(5)

While that negative bias — focusing on the negative — is a good coping mechanism, it also means we’re investing our time and thoughts in seeing all of what is wrong and bad, and not what is good and possible. The negative gets all of the attention, and the algorithm of what we see and how we perceive things gets skewed.

So let’s bring this home — to 2024 and the election season.

The more we focus on Trump and the tsunami of fear and hatred, the more our energy — our emotional energy, our thought energy — is projected in that direction. The more we think about something, the more we attract it. Not to mention the fact that the more we read his headlines and share his news, the more free air time and advertising we’re giving him and his campaign.

In an ideal world, there would be a setting to block how much Trump news shows on our feeds. Like Parental Controls, only maybe called Peace of Mind Controls?

Because the more bandwidth he gets, the less there is for headlines about all of the good things happening here in the U.S. and across the world. And the less we see and share the good news, the harder it is to have faith that things will get better, to have hope for our future as a country, and ultimately, as a race.

Think there’s not enough good news to share? Then check out the Good News Network with positive and uplifting stories about conservation efforts, medical and scientific achievements, people making a difference, and all of the good things happening around the world and right here in the United States!

Namaste.


1 – “The Science Behind Why We Can’t Look Away From Tragedy,” by Danielle Page.

2 – “24 Good Things Already Happening in 2024,” by Chris Taylor on January 5, 2024.

3 –  “The Science Behind Why We Can’t Look Away From Tragedy”

4 – Hicks, Esther., Hicks, Jerry. The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham. United Kingdom: Hay House, 2006.

5 – Ibid.

Photo by Victor Freitas, Pexels. Essay ©2024, Jen Payne.


3 replies on “I am what I think. We are what we share.”

Excellent piece. I’ve often told myself to stop looking at/dwelling on all that negative promotion of today’s election coverage and I question where is the coverage of all the good that is out there…but to little avail. Maybe I should open some of those links that you shared! 😂

I do a quick glance at headlines and move on with my day. But I very much like the idea of looking at all of the good news and positive headlines.

The fatigue that comes with all the negativity emanating from the right is exhausting on all fronts. Like Mary I try to get my local news, and avoid the sports/celebrity/politics. I do a quick check to make sure things aren’t totally in flames and move on. I counterbalance any of the garbage or bad news by seeking out things that factually or emotionally lift my spirits. I liked the 3 links you shared, thank you!

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