Pieces of Thought

Keys

“For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction,” Isaac Newton said.

“You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, ‘I release the need for this in my life’,” author Wayne Dyer said, some 300 years later.

I don’t think either of them were talking about keys…but I am.

I was walking through the woods the other day, thinking about the things we carry with us. The physical things—like keys—and the less tangible, like memories. The things we carry with us can be heavy—grudges or a responsibility. Or they can be light—kind words or the lyrics of a favorite song…

The wind is the whisper of our mother the earth
The wind is the hand of our father the sky
The wind watches over our struggles and pleasures
The wind is the goddess who first learned to fly*

Often, the things we carry with us are no longer necessary.

For example, the key chain I carry holds 11 keys, three key fobs, and bar-coded tags for access to my library, AAA, and mile-long receipts from CVS.

Of those keys, I use three: house, car, post office box. One opens the door to a friend’s house, but I can’t remember the last time I used any of the other ones. That’s seven keys—or about four ounces—I carry around with no purpose.

Imagine if the non-tangible things carried weight as well? An ounce for that grudge, another for that resentment. Two ounces for that grief, and two more for that heartache. Perhaps they do.

But can I “release the need for this in my life,” I wonder as I walk? Can I let go of those old things that no longer serve a purpose? Can I leave stale habits and welcome new ones?

If I want to change things, according to Newton, I must do something: every object tends to remain in its state of motion unless an external force is applied to it.

If I “release the need,” and there is an equal and opposite reaction…will I manifest positive change? What new doors will open?

And won’t I need a new key?

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*Windsong, John Denver

5 Responses

  1. Maddie

    Oh Jen – I found this musing so thought provoking, and, actually useful! It was fun to follow the colored threads of your thoughts! Thank you for sharing! xxooxx Maddie

  2. T J Buckley Googins

    whoa – that’s deeper than looking down into my well this morning – your blog is always so interesting and, as maddie says, so thought-provoking! the key analogy reminds me of jacob marley’s chains that he forged in life and had to carry with him in the afterlife – i know i need to lighten my own load – thanks for the gentle reminder!

  3. As soon as I release something there is a nice empty space, then as empty spaces often do, it gets filled with something else. I guess if I release an unwanted emotional weight, I better be prepared to fill that emptiness with a well planned wanted emotional buoyancy. It’s easier for me to let go than it is to be in control of what I let in.

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